This may be the biggest excuse men use for being lazy in relationships, much less finding one.
German theologian Dietrich Bonhoeffer addresses this issue in a wedding sermon he wrote for his sister from a Nazi jail cell.
Whom you married wasn't even up to you most of the time.
He says that God joins the relationship between a man and a woman at the point of marriage.
Before that, the couple has to take the initiative.
There is plenty of stuff about God's will for his people, God wanting good things for you, and God's ultimate plan.
Nowhere, however, does it say that God picked out a spunky brunette whom he's waiting to spring on you at the right moment. When it comes to God, I'm pretty careful about saying what he does or doesn't do.
There are things floating around that have little or nothing to do with the Bible.