Augustine Coordinator or to register by phone call 941-915-6234.
It is the desire of the administration at Harvest Community School that high school families are in agreement and like-minded when it comes to the students and their desire to remain pure until marriage.
In order to ensure equal numbers of men and women at our events, everyone must register in advance.
The best comparison between courting and purity vs intimate dating can be found on the Focus on the Family website entitled Boundless. For our purposes, there are three broad differences between what has been called Biblical courtship and modern dating. The Difference in Motive The first difference lies with the man’s motive in pursuing the relationship.
The fact that individuals will be emotionally and probably physically intimate with many people before settling down with the “right person” is just part of the deal. ” while Biblical courtship asks, “How can I be the one for her? The Difference in Methods Third, and most practically, modern dating and Biblical courtship are different in their methods. Grow your physical intimacy and intensity on the same track as your emotional intimacy.
Yet where is the Biblical support for such an approach to marriage? How many examples of “recreational dating” do we see among God’s people in the Bible? The practical advice I give singles at church is, if you cannot happily see yourself as a married man (or woman) in less than one year, then you are not ready to date. The Difference in Mind-set The second major difference between Biblical courtship and modern dating is the mind-set couples have when interacting with one another. It is not maliciously selfish, as in “I’m going to try to hurt you for my benefit.” It is an oblivious self-centeredness that treats the whole process as ultimately about me. And this is where the rubber really meets the road. In Biblical courtship, commitment precedes intimacy. According to the current school of thought, the best way to figure out whether you want to marry a particular person is to act as if you are married and see if you like it. What you do and say together is private and is no one else’s business, and since the relationship is private, you need not submit to anyone else’s authority or be accountable.
Within this model, both parties should seek to find out, before God, whether they should be married and whether they can serve and honor God better together than apart.
The man should take care not to treat any woman like his wife who is not his wife.
Augustine Pre-Dating Speed Dating Coordinator or to register by phone call 941-915-6234.