It makes sense in theory — you’re strangers and you want to make her feel comfortable. You want to show her how similar you are and how you both love the same things.
So sometimes it’s easier to not reach out and make excuses. And I know you didn’t magically forget, you’ve been thinking about this decision repeatedly.
You will either get ignored or become the friendly guy who gives her free attention.
New rule: “I will suggest meeting up with a girl within our first or second text exchange.” A lot of guys think they need to a woman to meet up with them from online dating.
Then we’ll create new rules that you must follow regardless of your doubt or fears.
When you’re out at a bar, club, or event, notice how many women are looking around.
Delaying your responses for hours or days does not make you more attractive. New rule: “I will respond within 4 hours of getting a text from a girl.” Having a new girl respond over text feels great.