My boyfriend of five years has developed a strange fascination. (Spoiler: He's bi, bicurious, or so homoflexible he could tour with Cirque du Soleil.) If you're not interested in having sex with women, tell him so.
We've always watched porn together, but now he has been looking at straight porn and even lesbian porn (!!! More than once he has expressed an interest in having a MMF threesome—and he's a self-proclaimed gold-star gay! On the other hand, we still have sex pretty frequently. Guy Alarmed, Yeah, By Younger Boyfriend's Interest Turning bi? If being with you means he can never have sex with a woman, tell him so.
My problem with the world is that it seems to think it is possible to embrace the rights of sex workers and still stigmatize the men who employ them.
I am in a happy monogamish marriage, and I enjoy a very good, vanilla-but-bordering-on-tantric sex life with my wife.
This week, I discovered he had hidden a Fleshlight from me. He really gets off when I call his ass a "pussy," which I'll do to turn him on, but I find it pretty weird. And if you would never knowingly date a bi guy, tell him he deserves better.
He also tells me he gets off on the thought of the two of us fucking a woman together. A relationship question that doesn't involve sex: Occasionally when two people live together, they bump into each other or one may get in the way of the other.
Or should I just go ahead and find myself another jack-off buddy? I recently spent a wonderful weekend with a young woman from out of town who identifies as queer and poly.
Craving Uncut Masculine Sri Lankan Another jack-off buddy? Being the curious guy I am, I had her explain what these things meant to her.
It is, however, one of the things on my list for my quarterly pro session.
For one example: An ethically nonmonogamous woman fucks the boyfriend/husband she loves and other guys she doesn't; a poly woman has two (or more) guys she both loves and fucks.
I have two complaints: one with the world and one with you.
I recently posted an online ad for a jack-off buddy.
I got a response from a man who turned out to be a gorgeous, young Sri Lankan dude with a huge, beautiful uncut cock.
After we were finished, he indicated that he might hit me up again.