On the flipside of the coin, it’s possible to say too much. Don’t make it a laundry list of the things you aren’t looking for in a partner.
Also, don’t waste space with defensive statements like: “I don’t have any baggage and I’m not looking for anyone who does”.
These tips are a great place to start if dating sites/apps have not been working for you.
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When you put all your focus on who is reaching out to you, it means that you aren’t putting enough focus on reaching out to men that you find interesting and attractive. You’re Fishing In The Wrong Pond Unless you are dealing with a very specific dating site like Christianmingle, Ourtime, or Mousemingle (The #1 dating site for Disney fans), all dating sites and apps can look alike.
If all of your energy is wasted on being found, your best outcome is to be able to choose the best from whatever happens to find you. Unfortunately, they are all very different, and they attract people with very different types of agendas.
They want to convince you of all the reasons that you should love them.
Meanwhile, women often make the mistake of giving too little or too much information in their profiles.
If your profile is too short and vague, it sends the message that you are either not serious about meeting someone or that you might not even be a real person.
Most of the time, we either fire off a “like” or a short message and we figure we’ve got nothing to lose because it’s just a little email.
The problem is that this leads to rejections that could have been easily avoided and bad dates that should never have happened.
Meanwhile, women are making completely different mistakes but ending up in the same place.